"What Are You?" Counseling Multiethnic Christians to Respond to Questions Regarding Their Ethnic Identity
The issues of ethnic identity and misidentification are topics of concern for many multiethnic individuals because they do not necessarily resemble one—or sometimes either—of their parents. Additionally, the blending of their diverse ancestries may obscure aspects of their ethnic heritage, or cause them to resemble another people group to which they are not related. [1] Misidentification can be a source of frustration if the issue is iterative, and variations of the question “what are you?” can become a source of irritation. Counselees who struggle with the issue of misidentification will need to put several principles into practice in order to avoid as much frustration as possible. [2] First, they must recall that all Christians must be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger in their interactions with others (cf. Jas. 1:19). Some questioners will focus on the issue of ethnicity out of spite, or because they view a multiethnic person as “something other than them.” Others...